What machine are you using to write to this forum?
Yes, Internet recovery is good way to do it. When it boots you see a menu, there is the Disk Utility, start it and erase the SSD again and then try installing the os again.
The Internet recovery probably installs the original Mac OS version to your computer. You can then install updates up to High Sierra.
This talks about using apple store.
You need to properly read and understand what the instructions say. It actually tells you how to do it if you cannot use App store. But, you need an another Mac to do it. I guess the download Mac os and create bootable media are too difficult for you so its better you try the Internet recovery again.
‘Erase process has failed’ What the hell is going on
Maybe the cable, drive or something else is broken. We cannot see what you are doing so difficult to know what is happening in your end.
But, in any case: I've owned hundreds of hard disks and 2 have broken. From dozen or so SSD:s one is maybe faulty. If your computer breaks hard disks all the time then I guess something else is at fault than the drives it self. Or you are the most unlucky guy there is when it comes to hard disks.