Whether it's just a result of greater numbers in use, Sonnet's NVME cards seem to have been effected more intensely by the Sonoma unmounting issue than others - at least we have folks here with Highpoint cards who were not effected.
If you're looking for a NVME SSD, I've had reliable performance with Samsung 990 Pros. Yeah, they're more expensive to start, but the cost of one round of troubleshooting an unreliable drive... is it really a savings to get a cheaper option?
Edit: also, you can renew your Applecare, it goes on to a rolling 12 month auto-renewing plan.