I agree with every word here!This reminds me of the "new" Disk Utility several years ago. I hated it and even downgraded a few times only because of the change. I always confuse if it came with El Capitan or High Sierra.
Also I liked iPhoto more than Photos and it had a big brother with the same design (Aperture) like iMovie (Final Cut Pro) and Garage Band (Logic Pro). Sadly it was discontinued with the change to Photos. Aperture was not that expensive than the other ones, if I remember correctly.
I upgraded from High Sierra to Ventura by buying a new Mac. Maybe I have less problems with the new System Settings because I very rarely use my iPhone/iPad and it doesn't remind me of their settings. Also I skipped so many versions that there might be enough other changes that annoyed me more.
The thing I hate most is APFS and those extra System Partitions now.
Thanks!