Likewise. This feels like a bug that was just abandoned.
For research purposes, can you guys please list down what type of setup you have?
For example, I have an Apple M1 Pro with 2x ultrawide 3440x1440 external monitors connected directly to the laptop via USB-C and HDMI ports.
This issue doesn't go away for several years now. The only salvation I have is the AutoRaise app, which slightly mitigates the issue.