Hi mariusae,
That /Library/Preferences/com.apple.Bluetooth.plist file was one that Apple support made me delete at one time, and it was re-created automatically. I suppose you can try to do the same. It didn't help me.
I don't have quite that many devices listed in that section, but I may not have been using my MBP long enough, to reach your number. To me it seems it is just a list of all the BT devices ever encountered.
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As I mentioned, I seem to have identified the root of the problem as my Apple ID, but I have no idea what is wrong with my Apple ID. Actually, I may need to say what
was wrong. I am not sure if Apple support has perhaps found something and fixed it (I have not not receive any response for more than a week now), but I had no mouse disconnect for almost a week.
There was one thing I did to my Apple ID, namely I cleaned it up a bit. And by "cleanup" I mean I deleted all the old, unused logged in devices from it, and left only the ones I actually use.
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Honestly, I don't think it was the "silver bullet", because after the cleanup I still had mouse disconnects. The disconnects stopped a few days later.