"if I was able to get in with an external drive, as I am right now, that would give me more options to try to get that RTF or TXT TextEdit file, that is where I am at now, does anyone know how I can pull it from the original hard drive?"
Just grab the file and drag it to your external boot drive.
Does it "copy over"?
Now that I am having some success in getting the Finder to work properly, I am close but I feel like there is something basic I am missing in order to get this file, at one point, I saw the documents folder but it had the red mark on it and reported that I did not have permission to view it, when I click info on the original Macintosh HD, I tried checking, "ignore ownership of this volume" and changing "everyone" to read and write from just read, are there any tricks you are aware of to allow me to make moves with the original Hard Drive?
I think the original Hard Drive, whatever the problem is causing the boot drive's Finder and Disk Utility to go whacky, I just want to find my file and then erase the entire original drive and start fresh.
But without the help from this thread, I would probably not have made it this far.