What I did was to buy a middle road Samsung tablet, Galaxy Tab S5e, to see if it would do the job in the way that I wanted. It was good enough to do the job, I knew it wasn't going to be what I wanted to live with long term, but I was able to understand the job that I needed doing, the way it needed doing, and I was then able to choose what was right for me. Worst case, or best case depending on how you look at it, was that I sold it and went straight back to an iPad. The iPad it replaced was being replaced anyway so the only real downside was the difference of buying and selling the S5e. That got replaced by an S7+ in January. I still have the S5e in fact as it makes for a far better weekend trip type tablet.
I did exactly the same thing before it in replacing my iPhone SE with a Samsung Galaxy A8. That got replace by an S10 in under a year and the A8 got sold basically for what I bought it for. What I need to be clear about is that having an Android tablet probably wouldn't have worked as well had I not done the hard work in switching my phone beforehand. I probably would never have tried it. There are a lot of gotchas in having a mixed mobile environment and Apple knows this and plays straight into it. The fanboys don't in fact actually realise how they're caught in the system they are and because of it aren't able to judge fairly even if they wanted to. I "tried" Android twice before this and it failed tragically and very quickly both time. Firstly because Android from about Android 8 or 9 is significantly better to the Android of "before". But more importantly, iCloud is basically inoperable with non-Apple devices. Anyone going into any non-Apple device with the intent of clinging on to iCloud will result in failure in most cases.
So if you're able to pivot around iCloud and use it as a tool that is only for your benefit then you'll have a good shot at making it all work. Otherwise I'd probably recommend to you to probably not bother. FWIW I use iCloud on my Macs for move data from one place to another and only for email on my non-Apple devices. The rest of what iCloud does is done elsewhere. While I have a Google account, none of my data is with Google. The biggest collateral winner in this I think has been Microsoft. Mostly by default because of Microsoft 365 as well as Samsung's increased integrations with Microsoft and what comes with it, but the very recent switch to Edge as my browser of choice across the board has been working great for me. I can no fully get rid of Chrome as a bonus! Now that I've done this I'm able to choose from what is the best mobile device. It can be either as I have been careful to ensure that all my choices make me OS independent.