Another Chinese saying, "It does not matter if the cat is black or white, only if it can catch mice." Or even a better one concerning the bad mouthing of forum posting. "Old Chinese Proverb say's "Do not remove a fly from the foreheads of others with a hatchet.
Words have power, and using them in a soft manor brings friendship to our forum.
I ABSOLUTELY agree with this. And, yes, as long as we reach the goal, everything happened, good or bad, would mean nothing, after that.
Whether words, axes, iPhone, they are all tools. Use tools well, and they could serve us well. Otherwise, see what unexpected would happen.