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For naming in general, I like something new for the first name and a family name from an older relative for the middle name. Explaining to the child where their middle name came from and something about that person is a good way for them to learn to appreciate some family history.
My father, who was 5th generation Swede (I'm 6th generation) started something with me. They (my parents) gave me my own name, but my middle name is my father's first name. When my son was born, I continued this - so my son bears my first name as his middle name. I am hopeful that my grandson's middle name will be my son's first name, which would carry this to the third generation. But that is entirely the choice of my son and his wife.
 
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Johnny is an awesome name. One of the all time best names, IMO. John Wayne, Johnnie Walker, John McClane (Yippee kai yay!), John Rambo, John Doe (Se7en).

Willie Nelson probably did not get teased because it had not have up the connotation it has now. Woody is another. I'd bet if Jets owner, "Woody" Johnson wasn't rich people, would make fun of his name constantly. His name is the modern day equivalent of Biggus Dickus.
The implication about Johnny Cash, was not about his name. Johnny Cash had a hit song in 1969: "A Boy Named Sue"
 
What? I have no issues in this regard and if I offended you or anyone, my apologies. My point is that if you are given an extraordinary name and end up an ordinary job, you might get kidded, but now that I think about it, being named Destiny, you might get kidded regardless of your job.
Since you mentioned the job, I thought that might have been what you meant, but that could have been my misinterpretation as well. Thanks for clarifying, and we're good.
 
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Why should Destiny's occupation have any real bearing on the quality of her name? I think Destiny is a lovely name. If I were to ever have a girl, I would pick a name with my wife (hopefully I meet her before I go senile from old age later on down the road when I really am old as dirt and forget that I wanted a wife) and revel in that name tied to that glorious girl, regardless of what anyone else on planet earth thought. I would teach her to be proud of her name and her family regardless. I think too many people spend way too much time pontificating over and worrying about what strangers might think and do. I refuse to allow strangers to have that kind of control over my life.
I explained here and already apologized if anyone is offended.
Post in thread 'Naming Your Child'
https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/naming-your-child.2301411/post-30028826

Although I realize there are names that have meanings in foreign languages, when naming a child I would not use an adjective that denotes a quality, unless that quality is discernible in a new born, maybe relegated to a nickname. It’s just better imo to stick with tradional or abstract names mostly, although I have nothing against exotic names.

My wife’s name is Raquel and she has always disliked it, partially because she feels it is exotic, and that some people have assumed she was named after a movie star. Her Mom is partial to R names, as practically every boy in her family is named Robert. :)

This article is worth some gaffaws, however I admit Destiny is not nearly as bad as some of these.
Colon
Orgasm
Love Child
I’munique
Apple

 
At one of the schools I attended during 7th grade the family that had founded the school (private, Christian school) had a daughter named Destiny. She was out and in college by the time I was there, but I got to know her youngest sister Cherish real well because Cherish insisted on trying to bully me. Destiny, Cherish, and their other siblings were all part of a naming scheme I believe was designed to promote 'godly' children.

I couldn't see it.

Which is not to say there aren't good people out there with that name - I just haven't run into one yet.
Those kinds of “qualities“ names just seem out of place to me. Would you name your kid Buffoon? Buff could be the nickname which is not so bad. ;) There seem to be quite a few Bubbas in the South. How about Splendid? :)
 
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I was just thinking about the meaning of names. Mostly about how more traditional names have meanings. At least traditional western names.

Take Peter for instance. It means the Rock. I take it that however it was originally spelled or said. When people heard it originally. They heard The Rock. While it would sound odd to us to name a baby The Rock. Peter wouldn't sound odd at all. Even though they mean the same thing.

Destiny meaning fate, fortune or God's plan. Would be most similar to Dalia or Dahlia in regards to fate. Neither of which would be as noticeable. There's also Felicity meaning good fortune. Making it a similar name as well.
 
Names certainly come and go with the times as do mental images you may have of certain names. No offence to anyone reading who may have the name Bertha or Ethel, but in my mind I don’t associate those names with young ladies. Also, one’s own experiences of meeting and interacting with people with certain names can weigh heavily on whether you would give that name to your child.
 
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Those kinds of “qualities“ names just seem out of place to me. Would you name your kid Buffoon? Buff could be the nickname which is not so bad. ;) There seem to be quite a few Bubbas in the South. How about Splendid? :)
Yeah, I always though that was weird. But, this family was rich and was part of a group of rich people that had created the school I attended because they wanted to control the curricula their children were taught.

For whatever reason, the truly rich choose to name their children very odd names.
 
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I'm confused what naming your child with the meaning of an idiot has to do with anything?
It’s a name that projects a quality just like many of the names that project good qualities. Would you name you kid “super” or “brilliant”? My point, imo it’s generally better for you child to avoid those types “qualities” names.
 
My wife’s name is Raquel and she has always disliked it, partially because she feels it is exotic, and that some people have assumed she was named after a movie star.
Raquel is just Rachel in a different language. Google seems to think it's Spanish/Portuguese. Actresses have no unique ownership of that name.
 
Is “Destiny” a good girl name? I’m thinking not as I picked up a drink yesterday morning from Destiny, a server at a fast food shop. It’s an expectations issue or a possible source of being kidded. 👀
 

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Also, one’s own experiences of meeting and interacting with people with certain names can weigh heavily on whether you would give that name to your child.
This was one of the things in our minds when my wife and I named our kids. Certain names were discarded because we knew people with those names that were complete *******s.

We also took the time to consider bullying. Certain names attract the mockery of bullies. That also applies to initials. We were careful that our kids initials didn't spell out something that could be laughed at.
 
Names certainly come and go with the times as do mental images you may have of certain names. No offence to anyone reading who may have the name Bertha or Ethel, but in my mind I don’t associate those names with young ladies. Also, one’s own experiences of meeting and interacting with people with certain names can weigh heavily on whether you would give that name to your child.
Those would be dated names. I had an Aunt Bertha, “bright one” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bertha.
I looked up Ethel: “noble maiden”. https://nameberry.com/babyname/Ethel. The only Ethel I knew of was on I Love Lucy, a 50s TV show.
My Dad’s name is Melvin, also dated: “council protector” https://nameberry.com/babyname/Melvin.
My grandson’s name is Riker. You’ll never guess where that came from. :)

An aspect of many names where the meaning of the name is not commonly known, it’s less ostentatious than naming you child something like Bright One or Noble Woman. If those descriptive words are used the name would become silly as a name in modern society. :)
 
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It’s an association she or others have perceived. :)
When I was younger and became a student pilot, the twenty-something receptionist at the flight school was named Raquel. At 18, I was thinking a lot of other things about the young receptionist but the similarity of her name to a certain actress was not one of those thoughts. :D
 
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There is evidence that children with "unique" names, are more likely to be bullied, suffer from depression, become socially isolated, and attempt suicide.

There is also evidence that adults with "unique" names have a harder time finding jobs. Is it right? No, 100% not. Unfortunately, that is the world we live in.
 
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I don't think there's anything wrong with the name "Destiny", but I do have a problem with certain outlier names that are difficult to pronounce or spell or seem like the parents were prioritizing being "unique" over practicality. A name shouldn't be a burden.

That said, I have an unusual name myself ("Adler") and I've never met anyone else with my name (though it is obviously a common surname). So I don't think unusual names should be ruled out entirely as long as they aren't awful. :) Surnames can make good first names, but some just don't work IMO (I met a little kid named "Briggs" once and felt bad for him).

This conversation can get into sensitive territory because different cultures or languages might use names that seem "silly" to Westerners but are quite normal to them. I think parents naming their kids "Abcde" should be slapped but that doesn't mean Chinese immigrants who want to give their child a Chinese name are in the same boat. (I went to school with a guy named Shih Fa. Even though he had a Western middle name that he could've used, he chose to go by Shih Fa and none of us ever had a problem saying it).
 
Those would be dated names. I had an Aunt Bertha, “bright one” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bertha.
I looked up Ethel: “noble maiden”. https://nameberry.com/babyname/Ethel. The only Ethel I knew of was on I Love Lucy, a 50s TV show.
My Dad’s name is Melvin, also dated: “council protector” https://nameberry.com/babyname/Melvin.
My grandson’s name is Riker. You’ll never guess where that came from. :)

An aspect of many names where the meaning of the name is not commonly known, it’s less ostentatious than naming you child something like Bright One or Noble Woman. If those descriptive words are used the name would become silly as a name in modern society. :)

Of course some names a child gets can be prophetic.
 
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It’s a name that projects a quality just like many of the names that project good qualities. Would you name you kid “super” or “brilliant”? My point, imo it’s generally better for you child to avoid those types “qualities” names.
Except naming your child Buffoon is a whole new level of stupid.
 
I went to college with a girl named Destiny. She was a very attractive young lady and also worked part time as a bartender. After a week or two on the job, she requested to have her middle name put on her name tag and that's what she used at work.

As she put it, far too many people had...fun...with having a bartender named Destiny.

In any of itself it's not a bad name, but I can see where guys could make it an unfortunate name to have.

I also went to high school with a few girls named Chastity. By their reputation at least, that could have been considered a rather ironic name for them.
 
My son was born in and grew up in Norway. We wanted to give him a name that was easy and recognizable for both Norwegians and native English speakers, so we chose Simon. Pronounced slightly differently in the two languages, but that doesn't matter - it's clearly the same name.

Someone here in Norway asked me why we hadn't chosen the more Norwegian version of the name - Simen. I had to explain that to English speakers, its Norwegian pronunciation sounds like a certain bodily fluid produced by the male of the species. 🤣
 
That was just to reinforce my point about names that assign qualities. ;)
It seems all names assign qualities. Heck a lot give some quality of being like God or one of the pantheon of Gods. That's a lot to live up to.

I guess you could use a preposition or a pronoun for a name. Life would be awfully confusing being name You.

Who Me would be a great name. It'll sound like some shtick comedy routine at every introduction.
 
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