Luckily in my case, if I were to have a boyfriend (and ergo, a civil union) I wouldn't have to put up with the BS that goes with it; sharing the costs but allowing one to keep ones own spending money.
Hmm, now that I think about it, that's how my aunty and her husband work, same goes for my parents as well.
PS. What happened to the womens lib of 'women are doing it for themselves'?
Point taken, and to each their own. Guess I'm old fashioned and like the traditional "married as one" philosophy. Although SOMETIMES I don't.
Actually I DO have my own spending money, but a computer that costs that much surely must be a joint decision. We have a house to run and a child to get through college. The money spent on a $1,500 laptop, compounded over 10 years, comes to what?
Anyway, I'm still waiting for an example from my above reply how my $4,500 Mac Pro doesn't "scale" as well as a PC box.