Puma, You have a lot of valid points and it sounds much better than what I originally thought you were complaining about in your edited post. I think something to keep in mind is that a lot of kids are wanting to be that spoiled kid whos mom and dad give them whatever they want and will say things to look that way. It was a strange image that kids wanted to have when I was growing up. Their family didnt have much yet they want to make it look like they did. If they are truly that spoiled kid then you could only hope that reality hits them upside the head like a ton of bricks when they get weaned...
I had to make a ton of mistakes myself and finally am heading in a direction that is proper. I am in no way jealous of anyone that gets it handed to them as I promise you they will know not even 10% of what I have had to learn along the way! It sounds like you may be in the same boat, people who had to sort it out for themselves will be able to get through tough times. Those that have not wont know the first thing to do in order to save their behind when things go bad.
I had to make a ton of mistakes myself and finally am heading in a direction that is proper. I am in no way jealous of anyone that gets it handed to them as I promise you they will know not even 10% of what I have had to learn along the way! It sounds like you may be in the same boat, people who had to sort it out for themselves will be able to get through tough times. Those that have not wont know the first thing to do in order to save their behind when things go bad.