Must be awesome to be so sure you are right
Few points to consider
1. if there was exactly the same hardware in the macs as the PC's you could be correct. However Macs have some relatively unique hardware to them such as thunderbolt which PC's don't have
2. We have at least 3 (dell) Pc's with the HD4000 chipset in them that DO NOT exhibit the problem while the minis connected to the same exact display DO
3. These same minis do not exhibit the problem when connected via thunderbolt, mini display port to DVI or mini display port to VGA. Only when HDMI is in use, on the mac end, display end or both.
I'm stating what I have observed based on my own experience and am not claiming it to be anything more that. Categorically stating that you alone have the answer is not helpful to anyone. People trying different ideas and reporting success or failure is.
I don't know what the ultimate answer is, I just keep hoping for a fix or a workaround that I can deploy and I'll be happy
Not so fast my friend, suggest you read the Intel forum thread. NOBODY knows what the issue is, but Intel is trying a workaround with its MFC, which suggests its a memory alloc problem. That doesn't mean it is the problem, but that's what they are doing to fix it. Further, this issue is NOT hardware specific to Apple, it is happening on Dell's and many other platforms... for example, Aug02 comment from Dell user....
"I just wanted to post an update as to my experience with this issue. It sounds like others are still having this frustrating issue occur. Per my earlier frustrated post (targeted at Intel and its then-lack of interaction in this thread), I had been experiencing the screen black-out a few dozen times a day on my ThinkPad T430s laptop. Having this happen on a business system is unacceptable."