I don't own a MBP, but a quick glance at the threads here, its clear people are unhappy with how the 16" display performs especially compared to the 15" You're bending over backwards trying to defend Apple or the MBP, where as its clear the 16" display is inferior in ways that have made a number of people disappointed and/or upset.
Personally, I don't have a dog in this fight, but rather I was just providing the OP advice, to that point, I'll bow out, I'm not looking to argue over the display is fantastic or poor. I have my opinions, you have yours, and I'll just bow out