The Why Apple's M1X Macs Don't Need 64GB of RAM! video kind of puts the kabosh on the "require gobs of RAM" thing that is the "mistake" in the something goes horribly wrong with efforts to built a PC video
As explained beginning at the 4:39 mark the unified memory is right there next to the CPU. On Intel machine it isi a ways away from the CPU and thanks to the lower bandwidth (2 channel vs the M1's 8 channel memory) a lot more has to be stored in the RAM to do the same thing ie the way Intel CPUs handle RAM is inefficient.
All this is wrong. Bandwidth and latency are identical between M1 and any modern x86 CPU running LPDDR4X RAM. They use the same amount of RAM channels and have same 128-bit memory interface. This is trivial confusion because LPDDR4X memory channels are 16bit where DDR4 channels are 64-bit. So 128-bit LPDDR4X memory configurations are reported as either 2, 4 or 8-channel RAM, depending on what you count.
This is why Intel CPUs "require gobs of RAM" "for an actual working set" - they have to hold things in memory because there isn't enough of a bandwidth between the CPU and the RAM and the distance that bandwidth has to travel.
This doesn't make any sense. Even if M1 had faster RAM (which it does not), how does faster RAM compensate for the need to store more things in RAM? If your working set is larger than the RAM, you still have to store the rest of the data somewhere. That "somewhere" is usually the SSD, so you have to constantly swap the data on and off the SSD. So the bandwidth of the RAM does not matter — the data fetch will be limited by the bandwidth of RAM-SSD interface.
I have to ask. Why do so many PC users have the idea that the solution to performance is largely solved by throwing more RAM at is rather than things like faster hard drives and the like? The idea has be coming from somewhere.
It's essentially a cargo cult effect. Back in the olden day (10-15 years ago) when RAM was expensive and PCs were shipped with meager 512MB or 1GB or RAM and everything tended to be RAM-starved, upgrading RAM could indeed be a huge boost (because in practical everyday terms, going from 512MB to 1GB is a much bigger difference than going from 16GB to 32GB — unless of course you are someone like @pshufd who actually needs it for their workflows). So the common recommendation was "upgrade your RAM", just like the more recent one is "get an SSD". Given that an average PC user is technically uneducated and every community needs it's traditions, these "upgrade tips" have stuck with us, even if the real world has moved on. It's really the same thing as "running the CPU hot will kill our computer", which was born from the overclocker community where one would mercilessly overvolt and burn out the CPUs.