I don't even notice the notch most of the time.
I installed Bartender when the new MacBook Pro came out to reduce how many icons are displayed, and that was that. I've rarely thought of it since.
The only thing that bothers me is the glossy screen.
My 2006 was anti-glare.
My 2010 was anti-glare.
My 2013 had a massive anti-glare screen protector added (I don't want to go through that again).
So my 2021 is the first glossy system I've had to use since back in the old CRT days. The reflections bother me, the way dust & dirt is so prominent bothers me, the way fingerprints stand out bothers me, etc. I keep a microfiber cloth near to wipe the display all the time now.