Plug and play is for the iMac folks, performance is what the Mac Pro is all about.
Performance, stability, and reliability. Also, swapping out RAM, hard drives, and PCIe cards is a bit different than taking all of those parts (along with motherboard, PSU, CPU, fans, etc.) and cramming them into a chassis and get it up and running. And that's overlooking that most workstation purchases are rarely upgraded. Face it, we're a niche group.
How stable? Really stable. 4.5 Ghz OC on the CPU, 1500 Mhz OC on the GPU, Ram is 2400Mhz with latency reduced to 13. It hasn't crashed once and the only issues I notice is I have to press the keyboard to come out of sleep mode instead of being able to move the mouse around.
That doesn't answer the question. What are you doing with your "workstation" that tests the stability? Just telling us it hasn't crashed doesn't mean anything without qualifying it.
Again, no one is saying building is a bad option. It's just not realistic for many. And I agree with what was said above. If you're going to build a machine, then you might as well just go Windows. I prefer OSX too, but these days OS specific software is rare and when you're working in that software, the OS becomes almost invisible. And the reliability factor as well.