I can simply say this:
The fact the something went wrong throught the shipping process is plausible. Sure, Apple could have stolen it, one of their little men working for them had it in for Apple and said "I...shall steal an iPod to get back at the American MAN!" (Steve Jobs..Bush..whatever), but you know what? Apple won't care, they can get you a new one and the difference will be that someone at Apple won't be able to buy a set of paperclips with the profits money for the lost ipod (and the guy without paperclips shall have revenge on the paper clip company...i digress...). Apple can send you a new one and not even feel it. This part of the story, as I said, plausible, but the chances are slim to none...really.
Shipping from one side of the world to the other can have issues. See, I never knew that some shipments I placed in a U.S. website ended up sending me stuff all the way from the other hemisphere (Gateway does this, apparently so does Apple). I know for a fact that they change carriers throughout the trip all the time. What is true is that if you choose FedEx to handle your item...nothing guarantees they will outside of the U.S. Who knows...maybe...uh.."China Express" handled your shipment before it got here. Kinda like USPS, they rely on companies like DHL for some international shipments, or even FedEx for other delivery options.
We all understand something here: Companies will do whatever they can to make money. If this means they will pay other companies to ship their crap before it gets to the U.S., they'll do it, specially if they are cheaper or if other companies just won't ship to a certain location.
One thing we must all understand (and i'm sure most of you do), people make mistakes, and maybe it was shipped empty as a mistake, maybe someone accidentally opened the box and the iPod fell in the Alaska sewer system, maybe some guy from UPS, FedEx, USPS, or whatever decided to steal it. ANYONE can steal, whether you are rich, poor, happy, sad, or Steve Jobs. (Who knows...maybe it was Gates!) See that's why we are human, not perfect. Whatever happened to your iPod, it will get replaced cause you know what? s*** happens. If someone stole it, great, good for them for not getting caught. Sucks for you, but at least you'll get your iPod in the end.
Besides, I never got my iPod stolen from me, cause I know i'd raise hell too if it did.
But on a final note, as I read all this and researched some facts myself, who knows, maybe you're lying, maybe you're not real, maybe love is nothing more than noxious gas that gets in our systems. Who knows really?