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ADHD - A Hunter in a Farmer’s World (1997) by Thom Hartmann.
I enjoyed this book as it provides an interesting way to look at the often misunderstood ADHD. I particularly liked how the author finds a way to make it a sort of power rather than a “disorder” but without ignoring the real problem that it might pose to many individuals (suicidal tendencies included). Definitely worth a read.

I already talked about how much I despise some editing in reference to the generic third person (she/he) which often feels forced and more to prevent controversy than presenting a real need. This book brings the problem to a whole different level. I never wished so hard for an editor to be fired. A couple of examples:

Page 8: “Tell a child he’s bad often enough, and he’ll most likely become bad. Tell her she’s brilliant, and she’ll strive to achieve brilliance.” (I mean, really? Change the gender form right in the middle of the paragraph and the concept???)

Page 18: “An ADHD person may be working on a project when something else distracts him (...) The normal person will create a mental picture of each of those things as she hears them described.” (Although there is some space between the swap, it still doesn’t flow. Just choose!!)

The book is filled of similar instances which in my personal opinion will ironically pose an extra challenge to ADHD individuals.

A topic worth a serious conversation, - indeed, a serious, sane, sober, yet measured and nuanced conversation, one which allows for subtlety - yet which, with regret, I doubt it is possible to have here, in this thread, not without it becoming derailed both geographically - by way of a detour into the territory of PRSI, - and in tone, which I doubt could long remain civil, not with such a subject matter.

While I dislike the treatment of such a topic in the broad brush strokes of a blunt binary choice, I also do not believe that language is neutral and simply descriptive, but rather, that it comes freighted with cultural attitudes and subsequent baggage, and that, in turn, informs and expresses attitudes in politics, law, society, economics, and culture.

Thus, however clumsily expressed, I think that language should be sufficiently flexible (and capable of admitting and expressing change, for living languages change all the time) to be able to name things, and to be able to express the fact that what it describes includes clear reference to both male and female, rather than inferring that what is male also incorporates (automaticaly, but unspoken, therefore unacknowledged and unrecognised) reference to that which is female.
 
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A topic worth a serious conversation, - indeed, a serious, sane, sober, yet nuanced conversation, one which allows for subtlety - yet which, with regret, I doubt it is possible to have here, in this thread, not without it becoming derailed both geographically - by way of a detour into the territory of PRSI, - and in tone, which I doubt could long remain civil, not with such a subject matter.

While I dislike the treatment of such a topic in the broad brush strokes of a blunt binary choice, I also do not believe that language is neutral and simply descriptive, but rather, that it comes freighted with cultural attitudes and subsequent baggage, and that, in turn, informs and expresses attitudes in politics, law, society, economics, and culture.

Thus, however clumsily expressed, I think that language should be sufficiently flexible (and capable of admitting and expressing change, for living languages change all the time) to be able to name things, and to be able to express the fact that what it describes includes clear reference to both male and female, rather than inferring that what is male also incorporates (automaticaly, but unspoken, therefore unacknowledged and unrecognised) reference to that which is female.
And I have no issue with using either one, or both. I certainly agree with what you say about the cultural tones. However, this is not an excuse to be sloppy editors and make a mess. The first example I mentioned (page 8 of the book) can’t be excused under the language and culture characterization as its blatant. It’s just bad form. I have absolutely nothing against using masculine, feminine, both, or even a neutral form. But once you make the decision in a paragraph (or better, a chapter), please be consistent as the subject is one and only one.
 
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The Wes Anderson film, The Grand Budapest Hotel, was based on Zweig's novella Twenty-Four Hours in the Life of a Woman.

 

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The Wes Anderson film, The Grand Budapest Hotel, was based on Zweig's novella Twenty-Four Hours in the Life of a Woman.

Now, that, I didn't know.

Fascinating.
I have the movie in its Criterion Edition but I haven't watched it yet! I hope it's good!
I must say that I loved The Grand Budapest Hotel.

If you like that ambience of interwar MittelEuropa, that bittersweet European sensibility when telling of life and love, many layers of memory and narration, hilarity and heartbreak both, you'll love this.

And that is not counting the superlative - nay, gorgeous - cinematography (no CGI here, just sheer cinematic art, a mastery of how to tell a story represented visually, in gloriously rich, saturated, colours), the superb cast, the stunning soundtrack, and the terrific screenplay.

A real treat, both visually and as a story.
 
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Have many of you read Harry Potter & The Cursed Child? Is it as good as 1-7? I understand it's a play but the preview seemed quite good...

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1: Yes, I have .

2. No. Not at all.

3. Yes, it is a play.

The only really attractive (new) character is Scorpius Malfoy, who is a delight and a revelation.

Personally, I thought it lacked sufficient depth - if you are going to tread onto that territory, and address this material - what happens to the families - and relationships within those families - both of the victors and of the vanquished well after the war is over and done and won? - you need to do it properly, and seriously.
 
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Personally, I thought it lacked sufficient depth - if you are going to tread that territory, address this material - what happens to the families - and relationships within those families - both of the victors and the vanquished well after the war is over and done and won? - you need to do it properly, and seriously.

Thanks for your input. I bought it new for less than £7 (including P&P) so I'll give it a fair chance. :)

I'll have to set my smart bulbs to something more comfortable for reading lol.
 
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Thanks for your input. I bought it new for less than £7 (including P&P) so I'll give it a fair chance. :)

I'll have to set my smart bulbs to something more comfortable for reading lol.

The second problem with Cursed Child (apart from lack of depth, and, I'm also unsure about the narrative vehicle - a play - for the telling of this story) is that of many sequels - which is why many writers - (and, indeed, movies) after some success find themselves seeking narrative refuge in prequels, (and yes, the Harry Potter universe is by no means the only offender, - Star Wars, TLOTR, - I'm also looking at you), a trend I deplore:

Namely: If you defeat and kill your primary antagonist in the original story, - a story with a "save the world" dynamic, where, with the end, you (and your immediate friends, colleagues, supporters) have indeed saved the world and killed or vanquished whatever or whoever was threatening it - what is there to tell, who is there to fight, and how do you develop narrative tension - and, indeed, the narrative arc of your characters - when you return to your desk, computer, camera to tell a subsequent tale with the same characters?

This often means that such antagonists - those in a sequel - cannot carry - precisely because they lack the narrative heft and cannot pose the same threat - the freight and weight of the story in the manner of their murderous, gloriously wicked and utterly villanous predecessors.

Now, there is a very good - and extraordinarily interesting - story to be told about what happens to families, and relationships within those families (especially some of the more prominent families) of both the victors and the vanquished, when the war is over, won and done, (Gitta Sereny's brilliant biography of Albert Speer touches on some of this sort of stuff), and I wish that Cursed Child had chosen to explore this angle, or perspective, further, but - and here's the rub - that is not what those who read something called Harry Potter really want to read.

So, the narrative architecture of the Harry Potter world or universe - that irresistible intertwining of three principal (and eternally popular) narrative strands - in the HP 1-7 books (and movies) - a bildungsroman (coming of age story), a school series, and a save the world epic, which drove the story and offered texture, complexity and context re the world of the story - are all more or less entirely absent from Cursed Child.

Personally - but this is an entirely subjective opinion - I think that this is why the HP universe has since focussed on prequels, because this allows them explore the characters of both Voldemort and - above all - Grindelwald in greater detail, antagonists who can carry the narrative weight of such a story.
 
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Just finished The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. Not my usual bag, but it came recommended.

The book follows the lives of Nora Seed. What could have been, if she made different decisions in life, some big, some tiny. The book covers a wide array of what we can encounter in life; what moves us, what restricts us, the pitfalls. It is very thoughtfully written and encouraging. It’s a very positive read. Highly recommend.

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Demian (1919) by Hermann Hesse.
A short, but profound coming of age book, published right after World War I. I can't say that this book moved me as much as the author's Siddhartha but it's one of those books that should be read by most people. Several deep themes are tackled, from the duality of evil to the ego, from childhood trauma to self-discovery. As usual, I got a Dover Thrift Edition for $2 which makes it a steal.

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Demian (1919) by Hermann Hesse.
A short, but profound coming of age book, published right after World War I. I can't say that this book moved me as much as the author's Siddhartha but it's one of those books that should be read by most people. Several deep themes are tackled, from the duality of evil to the ego, from childhood trauma to self-discovery. As usual, I got a Dover Thrift Edition for $2 which makes it a steal.

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My sister-in-law is German, and for years, while my mother was still alive (and still mentally sharp), we received modern German literary classics from her as gifts - The Glass Bead Game, Steppenwolf, and Narziss and Goldmund by Hermann Hesse (I loved the latter two), and Buddenbrooks (which I thought superb) by Thomas Mann, among many others.
 
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My sister-in-law is German, and for years, while my mother was still alive (and still mentally sharp), we received modern German literary classics from her as gifts - The Glass Bead Game, Steppenwolf, and Narziss and Goldmund by Hermann Hesse (I loved the latter two), and Buddenbrooks (which I thought superb) by Thomas Mann, among many others.
I read somewhere that Steppenwolf is not an easy read but definitely worth the effort.
 
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Reading one that I haven't read since high school - The Sun Also Rises.
An excellent read.

I read somewhere that Steppenwolf is not an easy read but definitely worth the effort.
Agreed.

Not at all an "easy" read, rather, it is the sort of book that requires concentration, focus and attention while reading, but yes, well worth the effort.
 

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Just finished The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. Not my usual bag, but it came recommended.

The book follows the lives of Nora Seed. What could have been, if she made different decisions in life, some big, some tiny. The book covers a wide array of what we can encounter in life; what moves us, what restricts us, the pitfalls. It is very thoughtfully written and encouraging. It’s a very positive read. Highly recommend.

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That book has been on my to read list. I've read two others by this author - The Humans and How to Stop Time - both of which I enjoyed immensely and highly recommend.
 
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Demian (1919) by Hermann Hesse.
A short, but profound coming of age book, published right after World War I. I can't say that this book moved me as much as the author's Siddhartha but it's one of those books that should be read by most people. Several deep themes are tackled, from the duality of evil to the ego, from childhood trauma to self-discovery. As usual, I got a Dover Thrift Edition for $2 which makes it a steal.

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The Glass Bead Game is one of my favorite novels and I also enjoyed Siddhartha so I'll certainly consider this one.

Right now I'm reading:

Mr. Sammler's Planet by Saul Bellow

I have to say, while the subject matter is interesting (an aging man living in a decaying crime-ridden 1970s NYC), I'm finding it very difficult. I had no problem with The Adventures of Augie March, but some of Bellow's other novels are challenging my comprehension abilities. Reminding me of when I read "Swann's Way". :oops:
 
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The Glass Bead Game is one of my favorite novels and I also enjoyed Siddhartha so I'll certainly consider this one.

Right now I'm reading:

Mr. Sammler's Planet by Saul Bellow

I have to say, while the subject matter is interesting (an aging man living in a decaying crime-ridden 1970s NYC), I'm finding it very difficult. I had no problem with The Adventures of Augie March, but some of Bellow's other novels are challenging my comprehension abilities. Reminding me of when I read "Swann's Way". :oops:

To my mind, Herzog is possibly the best thing written by Saul Bellow; I've read a few of his works, but this was my favourite by far.

Re Hesse, I recommend that you take a look at Narziss and Goldmund, which greatly appealed to me.
 
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A Gentleman In Moscow - Amor Towles (a gift from my sister-in-law).

I loved this book. Thought is was very well written and will be looking for his other books. Enjoy and let us know if you like it or not.

Just received this through the post. An early birthday gift from my sister.

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