Yea I understand that. I read your edited post talking about marketing and how you don't like Samsung's and in turn don't like Samsung as a company that much. Which again I understand that too. Since you like Apple and the iphone more than any other smartphone that would be a turn off to me too. I like what they are trying to do even if I do like Apple. I think Apple comes across as arrogant to me, and that is a turn off.
If I were you I would give both phones a try and see what you like. Read a lot of reviews because they usually know what they are taking about. I can just say skins on android and android have come a long way. If you really like features that come with a skin, but don't like the skin that much then you can just download a launcher and you are good to go. Since you like the Blinkfeed you may really like the One.
I like you feel like we are about a year away from seeing Apple doing anything hugely different. Which is fine because the 5s will still sell out pre orders and sell millions. Are you going to get the 5s?
Probably not.