I hear you but again things just aren't flying in what you're saying. Macbook and iPads and imacs get very big yet can manage to be elegant. Have you seen the new 27" iMac?
Also, they offer carrier subsidized price points for iPads and they come in sizes.
Yes, elegance may come in various sizes. Now imagine carrying Apple's 27" iMac simply because it's elegant. Elegant as some big things may be, they're better of on that huge desk than elsewhere. Same as carrying your elegant S3 and Tab 10.1" to lunch and back to the office. Too daunting. My iphone 5 and ipad mini are just fine for elegance.