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That is amazing. Your parents probably recognized the importance of healthy eating and wanted to ingrain that in you and your siblings from a very young age.
Mine too. I know far too many people who struggle with depression likely because of poor eating habits. That’s my guess anyway, because they always say, “if I ate better, I’d be happier.”
Sadly, my folks, as amazing as they are, have always struggled with healthy eating. On both sides, heart disease, diabetes, and poor eating habits run rampant. Consequently, they passed those habits down to my sister, brother, and I.
My folks are generally healthy. One of my grandfathers had a lot of issues because he worked around toxic chemicals for 30 years, which caused heart failure and numerous other things. But as far as I know, that’s the only reason. He would have been very healthy otherwise. I may be the least healthy of all the kids at least, but none of that is my fault.
 
That is amazing. Your parents probably recognized the importance of healthy eating and wanted to ingrain that in you and your siblings from a very young age. My parents would be absolutely perplexed if I cooked them a meal.

Sadly, my folks, as amazing as they are, have always struggled with healthy eating. On both sides, heart disease, diabetes, and poor eating habits run rampant. Consequently, they passed those habits down to my sister, brother, and I.

The hardest part is that even if I wanted to eat healthy, I wouldn't really know where to start. Most of the time, it’s not an issue because I stick to simple ingredients for my usual meals—things like toast with peanut butter and apple slices, egg wraps with spinach, and oven-roasted chicken with seasoning. Beyond that, most of what I know about cooking comes from past partners.

I often read about you picking up new ingredients and I get jealous! Cooking is a very handy skill to have and it comes with many benefits.
When I was either five or six - very small, in any case, - my mother taught me how to boil an egg, with the immortal words, "if you know how to do this, you'll never go hungry".

From then on, breakfast - which I prepared myself - was always a healthy cereal (with milk), boiled eggs, and toast with bitter marmalade (because I liked bitter marmalade; my brothers each preferred different cereals, and different marmalades, and these were always available, as my mother would remind us to confirm our individual preferences before heading out for the weekly shop). And coffee - even as a child, I used to prepare proper coffee for my parents, after dinner at the week-end, and also learned to prepare it for myself (I was the only person who drank it at breakfast in those days, everyone else drank tea) at breakfast as an adolescent, along with cereal, eggs, toast and bitter marmalade.

Fresh fruit was always - but always - available, because my mother liked it, and knew it to be healthy, and knew that if it was available, we would eat it. No sweets (candies), ever, and cakes only rarely, such as on special occasions (birthdays, Christmas, etc).

Now, she did prepare a mean (and delicious) apple crumble, a brilliant rhubarb crumble, and a seriously superb apple (or rhubarb) tart (which I still miss, and which some of my university friends still recall fondly, decades later); those tarts, or fruit salad, or fruit, or natural yogurt with honey (which my parents had discovered on many holidays in Greece and the Greek islands, such as Crete, and both loved) tended to comprise dessert, chez nous, when we were growing up.

She would sometimes batch prepare food at the week-end, or, sometimes, late in the evening, - she excelled at planning, and multi-tasking - which we would then be able to consume during the week.

Now, encouraging us to learn to cook (I was sent off to a cooking course one summer, as were my brothers, - my mother, who grew up in an affluent and quite comfortable house where her brothers were indulged, had strong views on idle and entitled males, and had married a man who adored her and was completely supportive of her, personally and professionally - and my mother also sent us on typing courses, during the summer holidays, insisting that this was a skill that would always come in handy, such as when writing essays in university) meant the introduction of the sort of stuff - such as pasta dishes, my parents wouldn't have had these growing up - and also, sometimes, risotto - which my dad loved - and occasionally, something such as a curry to the family menu.

That was fine; my parents - who travelled widely and were incredibly open-minded - loved to try out new stuff.
 
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They even have an 85C Bakery Cafe in Stockton and several in the San Fran Bay Area, along with Paris Baguette.
Yep they do have a plenty up north. There is also an 85 near Apple Park on Main Street Cupertino which is quite small but there are also other locations in San Jose.
 
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