I love how some folks just love to push their viewpoint onto others. Good for you as a gal and the other guy…you all think purple and pink are gender neutral and beautiful. Rock what you love. But to me, those colors don’t do it for me as a guy. YMMV.Your last sentence nailed it.
Why would I care what your husband think? No offense. I don’t know him. Not do I know your father in law. Great that they love purple and pink. ?