I know that this question looks strange at the first glance, in this forum but...
Why are you still using Apple hardware, when whole world moved on, and is not looking back? Performance gaps between Windows and Apple hardware are ginormous. I switched to Windows, saved tons of money, and I do not feel that I lost anything by moving to Windows, from Mac. All of software is faster, more responsive, performance is much higher than on OSX, not to mention graphics performance which runs around anything on Mac.
Why are you guys still on Apple hardware, when there is absolutely zero incentive to still use their computers?
Professional Hardware? Threadripper platform - cheaper than anything Apple can offer.
AI? CUDA, and ROCm for AMD.
VR? Nobody cares at this point.
Everything for Apple appears to be in the region of... hope, rather than reason.
My incentive is only that I 100% enjoy macOS/iOS more than any other combo on the market.
With regards to performance gaps. Personally I would never notice unless I was pushing that bleeding edge consistently everyday.
I am fortunate enough to have multiple types of systems. At work and home.
I have a Ryzen 8 core system, water cooled and Overclock'd.
I have a Xeon Quad Core system, water'ed and OC'd.
A Xeon 6 Core system. A 7700K 5.2 full EKWB'd.
2 980Ti's, a 1080Ti, a Vega64 LiquidCooled, a 1070 LiquidCooled and my most used computer by far is my MacBook Pro 13".
It has told me over the last few years that my wants/needs have changed.
I tried telling myself I would be happier with some over the top system and I was for about a month or two and then it would sit and sit and sit.
I started with Windows, played around with several Linux distros over the last 15-20 years. Was a Microsoft MVP, system builder and now I take care of 40 systems, mainly Windows and it is the main reason I work as much as I do.
Even with the quirkiness in macOS I've not had a day where I wanted to pull my hair out at the end of the day.
I also have several Macs that are going on 8-9 years old and have never had a piece of hardware changed in them since I put them in place and they are being used from 7am-7pm Mon-Thr
So over the last 20+ years I have spent less cash on any Mac system from the day purchased until I got rid of it with resale value.