Someone missed their Yoga class methinks..
Sorry, but a really unfriendly comment. Do you honestly think someone wouldn't take offense? If not, you have a lot to learn.
You mean, someone with a sense of humor. Try being less sensitive and judgemental, you're not better than anyone here. You and your buddy are
genuinely angsty is all.
Your sense of humor leaves a lot to be desired-- it wasn't funny to me. And, it was at the expense of someone else, so bully for you. Now, you're labeling... placing the "blame" on someone else for being offended? Really? My, you show great social skills... my compliments to your non-judgemental response to her. Just think, you could have said you didn't mean it the way she took it, and apologized for the misunderstanding---but you didn't. You chose to attack her for expressing, mildly I should add, her offense to what you said. If you were being "humorous" as you said, you had a funny way of reacting to someone not finding it funny. Sounds like an excuse for being just a bit mean-spirited in my book. I just call them like I see them.
Besides, my girlfriend, my ex-girlfriend, and nearly every one of her girlfriends have either been photography students, or are hobbyists. It was an ex-girlfriend that introduced my to photography about 8 years ago. I made my point earlier humourously that men are here whining and women are out taking photos because, it's largely true. I know very few women who post on forums. They much prefer to be out socialising of if they must be indoors, they'll be on the phone. They do upload a lot of pictures to websites and comment, but the format is different to a forum like this one, it's not a place to discuss, just to post comment on pictures.
Considering what this thread has deteriorated into, I think it says a lot about the original question/topic. One of the two women who even posted in this thread have been turned off by typical, immature male antics. It disappoints me as a guy, but unfortunately it's all to common in the world, and the internet. It's been a breath of fresh air to have little of this on the photo forum, up until now. With your generalizing about women, it won't be long before all you have are ex-girlfriends. Interesting, Phrasikleia is an active and very thoughtful poster on this forum with a very useful point of view, and you simply dismiss her as "judgemental" and "sensitive" and "angsty." I think you have a lot of growing up to do. I really do. Her positive contributions to this digital photography forum outweigh yours by a factor of infinity.
I couldn't of worded this better myself. Every time she posts she writes like she is the head honcho in the joint and is better than everyone. I myself love to hear from women when it comes to photography. I feel they have a totally different perspective on things and sometimes its like my viewfinder barely works when I see what they see.
So, great. Just pile on when someone's being kicked. Can you provide some evidence of your own judgemental position? You say you love to hear from women, but when a strong, talented, educated, thoughtful and very friendly woman offers her thoughts on this forum on a regular basis, all you can do is feel threatened. You don't "love to hear from women" apparently unless they're weak and make you feel smarter than they are. What a shame.
Hope you got the point. You came in here posting like this is a women's rights hearing. Chill out.
Do all of us a favor and keep your attitude in this thread. I'd really hate to have your bias and unfriendly nature pollute the rest of the photo forum.
Phrasikleia, sorry I didn't respond earlier, but I didn't read this thread until just now. I have to say I'm really disappointed to see the type of petty immaturity raise it's ugly head here, and I'm solidly in your corner. If someone wants to take you on unfairly like a couple of punks high-fiving themselves for dissing someone they truly aren't even capable of understanding or relating to, they're taking me on as well.