If an OS or UI is bland, sterile, feels like work, I simply stop using it. I will not get used to something I hate. A phone, laptop, tablet, etc is an extension of one's personality. I like skeuomorphism. It made it fun to use a device. It didn't need 'night shift' or 'dark mode' because it wasn't trying to burn my eyes in. Once, it was a reason I adored Apple. They nailed it. Android was merely trying and failing. We are in flat land still 8 years later and nothing is improving! Why was 6 years of ever-evolving skeuo suddenly dated while 8 years of reliving DeskMate the future? Does anyone have a logical answer to this? why are pushing 4K to render text and line-graphics?! Why not just devolve video games to 8-bit and call that 'modern?' Why not also flatten interfaces in cars? (please, let it not get that far!) Why not go back to 'traditional' 2-d animation as if it were the 1930's again? People accuse me of being stuck in the past, or those like me as 'holding back the future' but all I see is UI design and software attempting to go back to the 80s-90s again for no reason, certainly not hardware limitations. Keep in mind NO consumer demand dictated this change. the OEMs are supposed to listen to consumers, yet for the last 8 years consumers have been told to 'just get used to it!'
If a company had said that 20 years ago, it would put them into bankruptcy. Supply and demand. Or have free market economics suddenly changed lately?