Wow, I just found this thread having just bought a Samsung EVO for a Yosemite'd Mac Mini. I'm used to Apple pulling some dickish moves but this is ridiculous....
I don't think Apple is necessarily pulling a dickish move...inconvenient, sure, but I doubt someone in Cupertino sat down and thought, "Let's mess things up for people who have upgraded old Macs with SSDs." I know they're constantly trying to increase security (and yes, this often has come by way of Macs being more iOS-like - Gatekeeper, locking out access to some folders, iOS-like tools like Launchpad, even removing the ability to customize some network settings in favor of "profiles" like iOS devices). It probably wouldn't be hard for them to add support for TRIM on third-party SSDs, which I can agree is the more frustrating move.