CUDA is not an industry standard.
It's a propietary standard that only works on GPUs from a specific vendor.
For 3D, Nvidia GPU is the only option. Most of software are not supporting Mac due to a lack of Nvidia GPU. Beside, Nvidia is dominating the external GPU market by 80% while AMD is still struggling to compete against Nvidia. This is why AI, machine learning, 3D, game, and other markets are still dominated by Nvidia GPU. Without it, you can't even develop properly. Too bad if you wanna argue about this cause that's how it worked for a while.
This is why many software, especially 3D and CUDA based software are NOT supporting Mac.
I think it’s absurd to blame Apple for the laziness of devs.
It's the opposite. Apple is the one who cut the support for Nvidia GPU several years ago. Do you really think Metal API is the best in the market? Btw, macOS's market share is extremely low compared to Windows. At this point, it's Apple to be blamed for being laziness and both Nvidia and AMD are not even supported for eGPU.
This is about to change. When Macs have arm, iPhone have arm, market is big, game developers will no longer ignore mac because of small market size.
How come mobile developers are still not supporting macOS then? iOS is a big market but not macOS. Since developers need to optimized their mobile apps for macOS, nobody will going to do that. It's been almost a year since Apple Silicon Mac released and yet, are there any proper mobile games on Mac App Store?
Admit it, macOS's market size is still small that even mobile app developers including iOS developers aren't willing to support their apps on macOS.
So you’re complaining about Apple for this and not the software vendor for only implementing CUDA?
CUDA is the standard for 3D software. Without it, it won't work or you have to rely on CPU. It's been a standard for a long time especially since Nvidia is dominating the market by 80% while AMD is only less than 20%. Also, Apple already dropped the support for Nvidia itself while Nvidia was willing to support on Mac. Who's gonna blame first? Also, Apple is well known for having poor GPU performance for several years just because of using AMD GPU.