can you go into an apple store and see of those make noise?
this is poor quality control unfortunately.
my guess is more worker right in china is making it harder for apple to retain the same profit margins (Which are more than healthy anyway given the price of the machines), and they rather have a more lenient QC because most people will ignore or not notice the noise...
i feel for you both. If mine made this noise i'd return it the very next day. Try to persist. Find a macbook that doesn't make such noise. Mine doesn't, not mini, not the 13" neither did the 15" but I'm probably too far away to help.