To summarize your post (referring to the OP):
You strongly prefer Apple's hardware, except for the lack of a touch screen on the laptop, and moderately prefer its OS, but don't like the cost.
If you're willing to give up touch on the laptop, there's a simple solution: Buy the last generation when the next one comes out. Then you get deals like this. Even though it's an M2, this is probably a nicer laptop than anything you can get fror $1300 in a current-gen PC:
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E.g., compare that to this discounted Dell XPS Plus which, at its "best-price-of-the-year" ($500 off) also goes for $1300. Its SC and MC performance are a bit weaker than the M2's when corded, and much weaker on battery. And, even corded, its GPU is only half as strong. Plus it has much worse battery life, is much noisier, and has less RAM. One the plus side, it appears to have a nicer screen (4k OLED touch):
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