This simply isn't true. First, you can get MASSIVE discounts off of the aforementioned prices...and most models do indeed at least allow upgrading the storage. My SP9, I literally doubled the storage for $40. My gaming laptop allowed me to upgrade both RAM and SSD. I went with 32GB RAM and an extra 1TB drive to $140. Apple is hundreds more than that at a 16" screen size. Also, in daily use, it doesn't get hot, nor does it have loud fans. Now, play a game (which can be done at far higher frame rates than a mac that costs 2 or 3 times more) and the fans kick up pretty dang loud. Still stays cool.
You can save thousands over Macs by going with Windows.
As far as the AI angle. We only have Apple's word for it that AI is going to be as private as it is. And as long as you avoid Copilot + PCs, then there is no AI on my computers.
But yes, that could be the one thing that if Apple executes well on the Mac, and Windows continues down it's path with AI, then I might go back. Until then, not doing it.
It really depends on your use case whether or not Apple products make economic sense.
You can find newest M3 MBA with 16gb RAM and 512gb SSD for $1250 on sale. Similar high end Windows laptops cost about the same or more depending on brand and specs.
Maybe you can save thousands using Windows but for me it is not just initial cost I am most worried about but pleasure of use during the lifetime of the device. In fact, if I compare specs, wait for sales for similar grade laptops from Windows OEM's and do the same for a Mac the prices are very similar.
I can also get huge discounts on older Macs. M2 MBA new is very reasonable. You can still find m1 MBA and next year when m4 MBA is released m2 will be even cheaper. You can also find 16 RAM and 512gb SSD models from 3rd parties now. Buy a gently used Mac on swappa for even less.
The hardware on MacBook's is better despite not having all the latest and greatest specs. Apple will hold back on tech until it is good enough. This makes a difference. My M2 MBA and 5th gen iPad air are two of my favorite IPS LCD screens on any device. I like them better than OLED. Now I would like a mini led screen more than OLEd or LCD IPS.
My point is the hardware and software last longer and perform better and more cohesive longer than Windows alternatives. At least for my use case.
I don't game. I like picture quality and color accuracy and brilliance over the latest tech which I have used and feel is inferior.
I like sound quality. Not just volume but stereo separation, dynamic sound and clarity. Clarity is most important to me. MacBooks have great sound no matter the model. The only difference is volume level and bass for pro models.
Design. I just love simplicity and industrial design. To be honest before m2 MBA I actually liked the black aluminum surface laptop in terms of look and design and materials. To me design matters.
Most Windows laptops just aren't built the same. I have a Samsung GB4 Pro 360 and it is probably the closest thing to Apple in terms of build quality and design. Even still it is not as good. Dell, HP, and others are even worse with bending back panels, cheap materials and flex. If you buy the most expensive OEM laptop they are definitely nice but they have flaws a MacBook won't.
Of course all companies make lemons and bad designs. Intel Macs are a great example.
Now with M series chips and new designs MacBooks are better than they have ever been.
You game. I only game retro games and only lightly. It is not a priority at all for me.
You say I can save thousands with Windows and I don't agree and my personal experience would show otherwise.
For anything other than cheap Windows laptops or Gaming laptops I save thousands over Windows laptops and I will explain why.
As I said, comparatively for laptops I would be in the market for the costs are not that much different unless you really high spec a Mac which I don't. So cost is within a $100 or so.
Then you factor in the experience using the Mac. My M2 MBA feels as fast as I bought it. Battery life is the same. Performance is really good with no heat and no fans while my latest Windows laptops doing the same tasks will be spinning fans and heating up. I have encountered slow downs and fan spin ups randomly on Windows. Never experienced that on my Mac?
So I don't feel a need to buy a new Windows laptop because in a year it has slowed down, runs fans more, and is generally a less pleasant experience day to day for me. So I am saving by keeping my Mac longer than I would a comparative Windows laptop.
For you Windows may always be a necessity and something you enjoy. But cost is relative to a lot of factors other than initial cost.
All tech is spying on us. At least Apple publicly stated they don't and are implementing security and privacy controls into the AI. The data the AI can access is limited to Apple hardware. MS doesn't really talk too much about privacy or security with CoPilot. Most new Windows laptops have NPU and will have co pilot button. AI is integrated into the OS even if you don't have a NPU, your integrated GPU is more than powerful enough to run AI.
But hey I have a Pixel phone. I may as well have a straight line to the NSA. 😂.
Little by little doing what I can to have at least a baseline of privacy and security that I don't have to pay a fee for. Trying to dumb down devices as much as I can. Losing battle I am sure.