After sleeping on it, I've decided to just use the XR for another year and put all this behind me. It gets the job done well enough so I'm sure it has another year in it. I've put enough energy into the hunt for this year. Hopefully by next year, we have some other options that work for us. Thing is, I was going to get a new Apple Watch and iPad this year to replace my aging devices along with the new phone since I've waited so long, but now that I'm sticking with the XR, I'm less inclined to do so. Having people like us skip out on iPhones every year trickles down to the rest of the ecosystem sales I'm sure. They really need to fix this.