I guess I'm in that category. I love my OLED TV but that is a 10' device. I love my OLED phone but that has a much higher PPI. I use both of those in the dark with no issues. I guess I just believed the Apple hype and expected jaw-dropping reference quality. I have now come to terms with the fact that £1K does not buy you a crisp clear display at all brightness levels.
Yep, if you look at any 4K TV (not just OLED) up close, like 6 inches, it looks horrible. But it looks great when used as intended, from 10+ feet away.