Actually she has a point if you're saving for something really expensive like a wedding. On the other hand, if you're using "your" money for an iPad, she shouldn't criticise you for spending it on what you want, lest you criticise her for spending $200 of "her" money on perfume or boots.
Heh. True, although I've met the saving target we set for the budget, so its not like i'm spending money i promised her.
She wasn't really having a go at me, it was more of a "sigh, roll eyes, another gadget???" type conversation.
She does have many many shoes, although nothing stupidly expensive, she's pretty sensible.