I am in full training mode
Unfortunately the plan I had in mind is not going to work, but I might have figured out a way to keep parts of it on my routine.
This week (M-Sunday) plan:
4x Martial Arts (I might substitute 1x MA with 1x swimming).
2x (maybe 3x) Weight Lifting.
7x full stretching sessions
Food (M-F) plan:
Monday
breakfast: 2 eggs
Lunch: nada.
Dinner: Filet Mignon
Tuesday:
breakfast: 2 eggs
Lunch: Protein Shake
Dinner: Roasted Chicken
Wednesday:
Breakfast: eggs burrito
Lunch: Protein shake
Dinner: Probably In 'n Out (Protein style double cheeseburger, no sauce)
Thursday:
Breakfast: 2 eggs
Lunch: Protein shake
Dinner: Baby back ribs.
Friday:
breakfast: eggs and turkey burrito
Lunch: Protein shake
Dinner: a couple of slices of pizza.
With the exception of In 'n Out, all the above are homemade (pizza including).
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I risk not seeing my son grow up.
This. This should motivate you, at least at first. Not only that, if he sees that you're unhealthy (and he does see it), you're basically teaching that it's ok to be unhealthy so - potentially - you're also affecting his physical well being.
I definitely think it's doable, since I have enough will power to shed the pounds when I start feeling heavy. I just need to stick with it and maintain more balance during the entire year.
Atomic habits is a good way for people like us. Just go to the nearest gym/dojo/camp/whatever (it MUST be close to your house) and sign up. Then stick to this plan: go there and spend 15 minutes a day there. I don't care if you just enter the sauna and don't do anything else; just go in for 15 minutes a day, for 1 week. Every day. 15 minutes. Just walk inside those doors, spend 15 minutes there, then leave. No excuse, since you don't have to do anything else but walk in there, even if you have the flu you can go.
Following week, 20 minutes (and maybe add some exercise, or some extra exercise). Following week... still 20 minutes, but write down what you do (the app "Strong" is amazing). Then move it to 25 minutes and try to do 1-5% better than the previous week in terms of exercise/weights etc. Just tiny amounts or progress.
You get the idea behind the "program". It does work. Maybe report your progress here for accountability