Agreed. We should also point out that it depends on the person. Some people are much better at self-control, and some are great at knowing which food to avoid at all costs. While a KitKat can lead me to overindulgence for a bit, I am certainly not a sweet tooth kind of person (my wife is). However, if I can make some popcorn... I can have several cups per night, without interruption. Hence, I don't buy them anymore if not as a special occasion treat (and a very limited quantity).
I came home last night from the gym about 3 AM, I replenished with four eggs, 6 ounce steak, two bananas, three waffles and a few glasses of 2% milk. But I needed that one last thing for some sweetness, and I had half of a candy bar, (‘Whatchamacallit’), I could’ve eaten the whole thing, but I didn’t. But to your point, self-control is a big part of it. I think if you train your mindset you have a trigger point where you limit your enjoyment eating , it’s easier that way. But if you’re somebody that gives in easily or you don’t have that self-control, that’s where things get dangerous, especially depending if you overindulge. It helps that you keep sanity by allowing to give your body something you crave, but to a lesser degree with knowing when to stop.
Thank you for your kind words. And thank your for being a big inspiration in this thread and elsewhere. I love seeing people focusing on their goals and work towards success, relentlessly (hence your name on here
). I will admit that a couple of times when I felt not going to the gym I thought "what would RP think?"
My user name comes from two-parts, Relentless is just for things I want to achieve, and that’s just the nature of how I’m programmed. And the ‘Power’, literally refers to my appreciation for tech products.
Part of me that wishes that I had a workout partner, that can monitor my form, help spot me or point out things I need to improve upon, but I realize it doesn’t really work like that for everybody, and it’s nice to find others online and share your passion, where we can all learn from each other, even though we don’t have the capability of living next-door to each other. Everybody learns differently, how we all apply different things to our lives in terms of how we eat and exercise, so I’ve learned things from others on here over the years as well.
Story time:
I frequent a gas station (It’s More like a mini grocery store) that’s about a mile or so from my house, they have a lot of produce that I can purchase versus going to the grocery store, like bananas, milk, they even have a full poultry/meat department that I pick items up at. I Usually stop by a minimum of four days a week there late at night after work, there’s no one around. And there’s one particular employee (He’s 22), Who is very much overweight, but I strike conversations with them every time about fitness, and he’s super knowledgeable on supplements and has decent lifting ‘know-how’. Every time I see him, he says, “I need to get back to the gym”, but he lacks the motivational drive. (Maybe suffers from energy issues, maybe low testosterone because of his weight, etc.)
So what I told him to do, get out a notepad of paper, pick one day next week that you’re off work, write down what day you’re going, what time and what you want to do/accomplish in that 1.5 hours. So why a piece of paper? I told him to tape it to his bathroom mirror and you can use that as motivation of what you need to accomplish to start small and build a curriculum to get to where you want to be. And then you keep adding to that piece of paper of day two, followed by day three, followed by day four, and that’s how it starts when he sees that piece of paper in the morning.
Really what that employee is missing, is someone to help encourage him to reach where we needs to be, maybe where doesn’t have that structural figure around him to make the changes.
My point is, we all need that little motivation of whatever it is, maybe it’s when you don’t want to go to the gym and you think of something you read or heard that you knew you would be thankful later on that you did it versus saying ‘Nah’.
When We start to see improvements from your progress, that would encourage you even more, because you know you’re on the right path.
Press on Yaxo!