I've just ordered a new ssd (mac compatible pins) and I'll update on my findings, it should be here tomorrow.
this was the one I ordered (I'm in the UK)

INDMEM NVMe PCIe SSD 512GB Compatible for Macbook Pro 2016 and 2017 13 inch A1708(EMC 3164/2978) Non-Touch Bar
INDMEM NVMe PCIe SSD 512GB Compatible for Macbook Pro 2016 and 2017 13 inch A1708(EMC 3164/2978) Non-Touch Bar
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