Your concerns about SSD longevity are common, but there is no real reason. If you write like 5GB a day to an Intel SSD the wear leveling algorithms ensure that the drive will last 1000 years before it's an issue. The actual longevity issue regards the length of time that NAND cells can hold their charge, and I think they last for only about 10 years. I find this point moot, since I have never kept the same drive for 10 years. Ever. And I don't think anybody does. If they want long term STORAGE, and not USAGE, there are much better methods of storing the data.
No no no, what you're talking about has nothing to do with the performance degradation issue of SSDs. On all SSDs (because they use NAND flash) you have pages and blocks. Usually pages are 4K of data each, and blocks are 128 pages. You can read from and write to pages, but you must erase entire blocks at a time. You cannot erase individual pages. If a block is full of invalid pages (files that have been overwritten at the file system level for example), it must be erased before it can be written to.
Don't forget that with ALL HDs, SSD or otherwise, when you "delete" something in the OS, the file is not actually erased, the OS just tells the HD that the space where the file was can be overwritten. This is a problem with SSDs because you can write to a much smaller segment of the drive then you can erase. If you have a block that has 8 deleted pages and 120 active ones, and you need to write to those 8 deleted pages, what the drive actually has to do is copy the 120 valid pages into spare memory, erase the ENTIRE block, then copy back those 120 pages it saved plus 8 new pages you are writing.
So even though an SSD is MUCH faster, after being heavily used you will sometimes run into situations where to write 8 pages, you actually have to read 120 pages, erase 128 pages, then write 128 pages, all just to write 8 pages. However, SSDs are SO fast that this is still MUCH faster than an HD writing 8 pages. Just not as fast as the day you bought the SSD new.
However, the G2 Intel SSDs have a new controller and firmware that seem to do some sort of magic that makes them somewhat immune to the performance degradation issue. Some speculate that since they have much more cache they are able to copy and overwrite blocks much faster.
4K random reads and writes are the most important speed benchmark for SSDs if you are planning on using them as you boot drive. These are the operations that the OS does a lot and having them sped up will make your computer "feel" the fastest. So not only is it faster on paper, but it's actually in such an important area that the difference seems amplified to the user.
Here are some benchmarks comparing the Intel G1, G2 and HDDs
4KB Random Write (New) - MB/s
-X25M G2: **36.1**
-X25M G1: 40.8
-WD 10,000 RPM Raptor: 1.5
-Seagate 5400 RPM Drive: 0.8
4KB Random Write (Used) - MB/s
-X25M G2: **35.8**
-X25M G1: 26.3
-WD 10,000 RPM Raptor: 1.5
-Seagate 5400 RPM Drive: 0.8
So you can see, where the Intel G1 drops from about 40MB/s to 26MB/s after being heavily used, the G2 goes from 36.1 to 35.8. Hardly any change. That being said, even the "degraded" peformance of the G1 at 26.3MB/s RAPES the 10,000 RPM raptor HDD at 1.5MB/s or the embarassing 0.8MB/s of a laptop HD.
So basically with the G2 TRIM is less important. However that number you posted without TRIM is also from a test on Anandtech, so basically his earlier tests said it didn't matter, now that TRIM is out he says it does, so it's a little mysterious...