I give up. After years of daily use of the iPad/iPad Pro, as my main device when I can, following every update that promises more functionality, following games and other apps that support mouse and keyboard, using the iPadOS16 beta with Stage Manager... I've realised that the iPad is just not going to be a comparable experience to the Mac for at least a few years. At least a few years.
It's not just that Stage Manager sucks, and points to a continual future of substandard window management and external monitor support, it's also that the software and apps are just not catching up. And when you've been enthusiastically using a device where it seems like better functionality and apps are just around the corner, eventually the years pile up and you realise it's not going to happen on the timeline you've been expecting.
There are too many disappointments. Take Minecraft for example, which just got mouse and keyboard support. How exciting. Game boots up, it seems great, seems like the future of gaming parity on the iPad. It almost doesn't feel real, playing a real game with mouse and keyboard on iPad. But after a couple hours of play, that world starts to lag like hell, on the M1 iPad Pro. Look it up, heaps of people have the same issue. Load up the Mac version on my 14" MacBook Pro and I'm blown away by just how much smoother it is. Not because the MacBook Pro 14" is more powerful (though it is), but because once again, the Mac has the real version of the game that works better. There is no way the experience on the iPad can be tolerated when you compare them side by side. If these issues were present on the Mac version, it would have been fixed long ago, but with the iPad version, it's just an afterthought, and it could be untold months before they fix it, if they fix it at all.
The iPad version of any cross platform app or game is pretty much always the worst version of it.
The comparison between the iPad and the Mac used to be quite different. The iPad was futuristic and fantastical compared to the 13" Intel MacBook Pro that was far too hot, far too loud, far too slow, and inefficient. I preferred to use my iPad because of how much the MacBook sucked. Now with Apple Silicon, you get the advantages of Mac software combined with the advantages of Apple Silicon. One of the main advantages of the iPad is no longer there. You don't even get a faster display on the iPad Pro anymore, now that the 14" and 16" MacBook Pros have Pro Motion.
It has been a couple months since I got the 14" MacBook Pro, and honestly I've pretty much stopped using the iPad Pro in any situation where I could use the MacBook. I now use the iPad purely as a tablet. And it's a great tablet. And I feel a lot happier now that I'm not putting up with so much bull and playing this endless waiting game for the iPad to become something more than it currently is.
I'm still interested in how the iPad goes, and I'll probably always have one, but I'm certainly not waiting with bated breath for it to suddenly become this pro device that can replace everything else. The hardware is already there - the software and apps (both first and third party) are years away, and I'm done waiting.