Every unsatisfactory result is just a product of unweighted decision - usually people navigate only their wants but not needs.
Very few people can have a good use to multiple products: any ipad makes up a really great 3-4 display as a sidecar be it in a hotel room or your home cool setup. The issue is that not everyone needs it, not everyone travels hotels for business, not everyone has a ergonomical cool home desk setup.
I personally learnt photo edits in lightroom by pc/mac only. Then on an iphone 13 I got really interested in dabbling with mobile lightroom which was no worse. I can only imagine how that is going to be awesome on some sort of an iPad while on coach.
Make sure that you need it before buying and that you can employ it enough to justify purchase. Refuse to buy if it will sit unused in your projected use plan. I was always a laptop guy, so I know that any ipad will be a cool gadget for me to have but not needed.
Sometimes it's to try things out. I ended up getting a 14" HP Chromebook b/c it was only $200. At that price, it def. fell into "impulse buy" territory. It ended up being pretty sweet. It does email and other internet tasks very well (with a full keyboard, most notably typing a lot, like on message boards). When it become unsupported eventually, I got a replacement at Costco.com for $200.
An used iPad Air (1st gen, made in 2013) ended up being a nice purchase too, as it was my first tablet. Used it quite a lot for gaming, but nowadays, if I continue using it, I'll spend more time charging it than using it.
Got a 9th gen iPad for more gaming. It came with free trials of AA and ATV+, so those alone went a long way. I was going to continue with Apple Arcade, but took a break from it, found alternative games (on Android, and non-AA iOS), and haven't looked back.
A big gaming change is I got a Switch for free, and I've been spending a lot of time there. I'll still keep the Ipad for basic tablet computing, and some games that are more prominent on there (like digital modern board games). Another push was I ended up getting the 64 GB iPad, instead of the 256 GB (I just didn't want to pay the extra $150). I initally regretted it, but it ended up being the right choice.
But yeah, while I haven't written off AA, I'm not likely to ever return to it.
Castlevania: Grimoire of Souls was a main title I squeezed in since that's truly an AA exclusive (it was on Android last back 2019, before leaving that platform for AA). I put about 10 hours into
Cat Quest II. I'm cutting my losses and if I do return to that, will just start over on the Switch version (which I got on sale for $2!)