I actually don't buy based on specs or a feature list.
lol. You'd buy a bag of poop if it had the Apple logo on it and claim it's 100% better than Android's bag of oranges. "Oh but you can eat the oranges? I can eat poop too! Anything you can do with those oranges, I can do with this poop!"
There's a difference between blind loyalty and acknowledging glaring differences.
Widgets:
Can you check your news feeds on an iPhone? Yes. But I see mine as soon as I unlock my screen. Right there in my Pulse widget. Engadget's new reviews, the results of the UFC last weekend, did they catch the Boston criminal? All of it right on my screen on a widget. I just scroll left and right and quickly check through.
You have to click an icon. And your icon, if you're organized, is inside a folder. So for you it's: click, swipe, pin, swipe, click, click. (Reduced to 5 if your pulse is in a folder on your first screen, not likely)
For me it's: click, drag, pin and there it is.
But wait, right underneath my Pulse widget is my calendar. Oh I have an appointment in 30 minutes? What else do I have today? Just scroll and check.
For you, you have to exit out of the app and then go to your Calendar icon. Everything you need to do or view requires you to go back to the home screen. That home button is so necessary.
The best part is, I don't need notifications for my lock screen to be useful. My lockscreen has weather, my email and how far I am from home in both distance and time based on traffic conditions.
I loved my iPhone 5. It is, and I say this in 100% confidence, the BEST built phone in the market. Period. The brushed diamond-cut aluminum and thin bezel. It's a gorgeous phone and I was hard struck trying to justify getting rid of it. A lot of what it came down to was that, I was just proud to hand it to people when I wanted to get their number or email. It ALWAYS got complements. "Wow this is the iPhone 5? It's so _______." And the blank was ALWAYS quite a compliment, ranging from "pretty" to "slick" to "badass". But at the end of the day, my $200 Nexus 7 tablet made me more productive than my $650 smart phone.
So I got a Nexus 4 and now I'm at least 30-40% more productive with my phone.
(I'll die before I sell my iPad though)