Well, it depends on the metric you use to define good/better. For many, that might not be price. It might be a preference for Touch ID. It might be a preference for a smaller, but new, phone. It might be a lack of need for a better camera, screen or whatever.
If the SE is all you need then by definition it is at least as good as a higher-end model, and it is the iPhone you really want, irrespective of your ability to afford said higher-end model.
The SE crowd is so pedantic.
We live under capitalism and certain goods and products are more expensive than others. It’s not an opinion, that’s just what certain in demand commodities are priced.
What subjective value you get from any iPhone, any size, any price, is a completely up to you, as an individual, and not something that can be understood by anyone else but you.
But factually, the majority of parts that make up an SE 2022 are outdated and much lower value per $ than those that go into an iPhone 13.
This is just fact, not something we can argue.
If you, as a consumer, then opt for an iPhone SE 2022 over an iPhone 13, and both were priced $429, you’d be losing money, stealing from yourself, if you’d pick an iPhone SE.
Doesn’t matter if you hate it or it’s too big, or any other subjective opinion for not wanting an iPhone 13. It’s value in our society is far beyond that of an SE 2022.