I picked my droid up and have both an iphone and a droid now
I am having a very difficult time getting over the lack of pinch, swipe, etc that the iPhone has. Apple was genius in patenting their touch technology, and it's a shame that all other companies will not be able to use it for years.
With that said, overall, I really like my iPhone better then the droid. My main use for my smart phone besides text, email, and web browsing is streaming music. The apps are about the same on both phones, but there is no Simplify Media for the Droid, and their developers told me they have Zero plans of making one. TukeWiki is a little bit better on the droid then the iphone, but crashes just as equally on both phones. In addition, as far as driving to work and back, some days work better then others on both the droid and the iphone, sometimes I can make it all the way to work without it cutting out, other days it does cut out. When it does, it's usually on my favorite song and I'm really pissed. I think it might cut out a little more on Verizon/Droid. I'm not sure if it's a network issue, or a stability issue with the app I am using, or a combination of both.
Keyboard, LOVE the iphone touch better then the physical or the touch on the droid. I have to say the droid touch screen keyboard is the SECOND BEST ONE ever made, but the iphone one is still a LOT better, I can type much faster and with accuracy.
Multitasking - everyone else has said it, the notifications bar, and multitasking are just awesome on the droid - non existent on the iphone. For that reason, I am having a VERY hard time making my mind up.
Call quality - I need to use the droid more, all my friends call me on my iphone so I've hardly used the droid yet. In San Diego, AT&T works pretty good, although I do have dropped calls usually when talking for more then 10 minutes... Also no 3G and Limited EDGE service in University Heights, whereas PERFECT signal on Verizon in that neighborhood.
Speaker - Definitely louder and clearer on the Droid. Plus my iphone speaker sometimes needs a reboot, as it acts all muffled and wierd until I reboot the phone...
Camera - Duh... Droid camera sucks, like everyone else says, iphone much better even though I have the 3G which is only 2MP.
Exchange Support - Haven't used Exchange on my iphone, but on the Droid, I can't stand the fact that it doesn't look up entries from the GAL (Global Address List) on the server. I'm not sure if there is something I can do on the droid to fix...
Combined Inbox - YES! That is better then the iPhone, but I get too confused, and think I like to keep my mailboxes seperate. I do like how it integrates mail much better, but I have to ask why they seperate Gmail from your other mailboxes and I have to use the gmail app! Maybe that's just a setting?
Widgets - This is definitely a huge advantage for Droid. I have a widget that quickly lets me turn wifi on/off, etc... Why doesn't apple allow this, I have to go through 3 screens on my iphone to turn the wifi on or off! They are being too closed in their business model and they better open up to more possibilities or they are going to loose market share, at least for the "geeks" like us on this board who like to customize our stuff!
Perhaps the deal breaker for me, is 7 more months to go on AT&T, $200 ETF, I think it might be best to just stick with my iPhone for now and see where the droid lies. The multitasking, widgets, and Verizon network are compelling, but I can still do things much faster on my iphone. I'm giving the droid one more week just to be fair!