That's true, but we also don't necessarily know how much smaller the display controller could would be if they had designed it to be more compact, nor do we really know how much power is saved by the design they have now. We're sort of relying on hypotheticals here, it could very well be that Apple had good reasons for doing it the way they did it.The key point is not whether or not you are connected to power when using externals, but whether you have easy access to it if needed. And you do. For instance, whenever I'm giving a lecture using a projector, I can always easily plug in my laptop. That's why the efficiency of the external controller(s) is not as critical as that of the internal.
A good compromise, in my opinion, would have been for them to allow one display controller to drive two non-6K displays in software, but at least we have displaylink that can do that as a third-party solution (not as good as native, but at least it's possible).
Speaking of access to charging, there were actually scenarios where I needed easy access to charging and didn't have it. Most of the time it's available, but I also am glad that the computer doesn't run itself down unreasonably fast when it's not (I couldn't say the same of the 2012 I was using in college). Nowadays I actually do hook up my laptop to an external monitor without it being hooked up to the charger fairly often.