I don't think its about not being able to afford it....
I can run out get 8k machine. What can it do for me?
how can it help my work flow?
If I make that type of investment. Macs last a long time. Pro machines are supposed to last longer. I don't need apple to limit the life of my investment.
Chip vs Chip is just a sliver of the pie. As a machine ages, software size grows. Fast ram is good. More ram is better. I've seen more speed improvements with Ram and HD and Video Card upgrades then the CPU.
Apple Silicon replaces, GPU, RAM upgrades with locked in pure performance. But If I buy a fast machine now, it needs more ram later im stuck. Virtual Memory on the HD is going to slow it down where, just going to have to buy a new machine.
Mac Studio, they choose to use proprietary HD's.
Now I've been a Mac user for 30+ years. I been though the 68k to PPC change PPC change to intel. All of them had upgrade paths. They had upgrades turn a 68k mac into a PPC. My three longest lasting macs Powermac 8500. dual g4 upgrade. Powermac g4 with a dual 1.4ghz upgrade. & Mac pro 2009 with a 12 core 3.46 chips.
My worse purchase was mac pro 2013 I bought in 2018. I needed that machine for software for work. Apple killed support for Ventura. I went to do a trade in for a Mac studio.
They offered to Recycle it. What a nice company lol. I should of waited a year and half for the 2019 mac pro. I couldn't.
Apple needs to be pressured to offer upgrade paths for pro machines. Every-time i go into the Apple store, I remind them why entertainment industry is moving away from apple. Mac Pro 2019 was a comeback, I'm waiting for new Mac Pro see what they do.
Your situation is unfortunate but from the way Apple, pundits, customers and end users have explained it Apple Silicon would not be able to squeeze every ounce of performance out of the hardware if Apple continued the old way of how everyone else is doing business.
And it shows with all the multitudes of benchmarks.
Upgrades introduces bottlenecks inherent to the physical distance between hardware to hardware. This impacts overall raw performance.
Best way to explain it would be like how a human city is built.
The most efficient cities are built to have all key infrastructure as close to the people as possible or even on site. So in terms of travel distance & time it is as short as possible.
Inefficient cities are designed to be sprawling with key infrastructure being only accessible via car on roads without alternatives of say a bus, or rail-based mass rapid system.
You can see this whenever looking at a logic board of a PPC vs Intel vs Apple Silicon.
I saw the logic board of a 2021 iMac 24" M1 and it is almost as tiny as that of an iPhone.
With the Mac Studio I think the target customer are those who never used the PCIe slots of the Mac Pro but want the raw performance. That's people like me.
Yes, I wish the memory & internal storage were user upgradable but I also wish they put in a Compact Flash card reader rather than a SD card reader. Why? Because I still use the highest-end Canon EF bodies marketed from 2009-2015. Yes, highest-end Canon RF bodies from 20220-onward use CFexpress B cards but I do not use em.
SD cards to me is a low-end annoyance but that's the most popular memory card for YouTubers and Sony users.
Yes, I wish the memory upgrades they offered were at most 2x the cost of 3rd party RAM or Apple standardised 2x the base memory & base storage of any Mac at the current price points.
So with your use case Mac Pro may be for you.
I have a 2002 Power Mac G4 and I never used the daughter board slots. I even wished I bought the highest-end 2022 iMac G4 20" but with the CPU & GPU of the Power Mac as that is what I wanted.
Mac Studio's a dream for me and merits its price point if only Apple's desktop SoCs had a higher power input rather than identical to all the laptops.
In other words why couldn't Apple overclock the M1 Max & M1 Ultra considering it is a desktop with an overpowered active heat sink fan so power draw isn't that much of a concern.
As for your 2018 purchase of the 2013 Mac Pro I am sympathetic to you but this forum's Buyers Guide and other resources would all point to that Mac Pro nearing its end of life. I believe as early as 2yrs prior to the 2019 model's release rumours were there for it.
Reminds me of myself when I bought the 2019 MacBook Pro 16"
14nm. There were rumours of a Apple Silicon Mac coming out weeks prior to my purchase. In my mind I was expecting a ~20% improvement so it would be cost effective for Apple and not worth the wait.
It did not dawn on me the impact of Apple using the same
5nm die shrink as the iPhone translating to >80% improvement on the Mac of everything and anything anyone could think of. Why? Because it has never been done that way before.
Apple, like all brands, will produce products people will want to buy. The Mac Pro you want will be available but because so few people want the old way of PC-style upgrade paths it will be at such a lower volume than a Mac Studio but at a price point anyone would cry over.
Businesses buying this will look at this at a total cost of ownership point of view rather than initial cost like what most consumers will be doing.