This was a great thread for me. I have been considering pro max since I got pro last year, but I switched to a mini in the spring (mainly for fun because I knew I was going to upgrade to the notchless phone). Coming from a mini, I figured I’d just go back with a regular pro, because my kids’ pro phones seem so big now. I got the pro yesterday, but also saw that my Apple store had pro maxes for pickup, so I ordered one to pick up tomorrow - figured I’d give it a try for myself.
After reading this thread though, all my reasons for being hesitant are mentioned here. My hands are small. I want a device I can use in bed and comfortably hold with one hand (tried an iPad mini for that, but it’s bigger than what I want and I can’t get anything to help me hold it the way I want to hold it). I don’t really want extra weight (in fact, I DID consider a 14+ to get size and not weight, but I really missed macro on the camera, and wanted that again).
Bottom line is, though I think I’d enjoy the extra screen size, I don’t think it would be the best choice for me overall.