This topic has been extremely repetitive. I see it like this: a very small group of power users who want (incorrectly, imo), the iPad to be a Mac. The vast majority of laypeople do not want that, and a vast majority of iPad power users don’t want that either - if you want a Mac, buy a Mac.OP: There's already a 5,000,000 page long pinned thread regarding this topic. It's been litigated and re-litigated over and over since 2010. The only result of this conversation is that people who prefer iPads still prefer iPads and people who prefer Macs still prefer Macs. Everyone will end up more convinced their way is right, not less convinced.
If YOU can use an iPad in YOUR life to replace YOUR Mac for YOUR workflows, that's great. I certainly use mine every day in tandem with my Macs rather than instead of my Macs. I have also done my job only on an iPad for days at a time. It's really not as complicated these days as people like to make it sound.
I think in the end, it's people just being insecure about their choices and having FOMO about new tech. During the years when iPad advances were explosive for each new release, people felt insecure about their Macs because they thought Apple didn't care about them anymore. When Apple Silicon Macs came out, people felt insecure about their iPad Pros because they thought Apple was forgetting about the iPad and refocusing on the Mac.
It's really just tribalism, FOMO, and people thinking their use cases and workflows are the only way to do things. Best to just pay this topic no mind and just use the device that's right for your own life. Don't worry about what Apple or anyone else says.
This topic has become, like you said, a circular matter: a minority of power users who want macOS on the iPad, and the rest of us who don’t.
Enthusiast forums tend to gravitate to this: I’m part of the extremely small minority who wants Apple to allow downgrading and a person who never updates anything. You won’t find laypeople who do this, and even among the enthusiasts here, I’m an extreme minority.
I guess this topic will keep coming up if Apple stays the course on iPads - which frankly, I hope they do.