To me, the key to enjoying iPad is to appreciate what it is, and not what you think it should be.
I have an M1 iPad Pro, as well as an M1 MacBook Air. In effect, they’re the exact same computer.
Despite this I can run software, such as video game emulation software, on the MBA, that cannot run on the iPad. Why? Just because.
Now I won’t deny that’s annoying, but when I start doing digital art on the iPad and forget about the things I cannot do due to iPadOS limitations, I continue to be amazed and ultimately satisfied with what the iPad offers. That is, experiences that cannot be replicated on MacBook Air due to the physical form factor.
Those who spend their time wishing the iPad would become a Mac replacement are in for a rough time. That’s ultimately because the product they want already exists, but they want this other product, based on a totally different design philosophy, to be that product. Apple are trying to please that audience, but as Stage Manager and it’s tepid reception will attest, it’s a bit like trying to fit a round peg in a square hole.
The key is choosing the right tool for the job. I do appreciate not everyone can have both like I do, but if you have a clear use case you’ll know whether a Mac or an iPad is best for you.