For someone who doesn't own one, you sure do think you know a lot about them. Opinions are like *holes, everyone has one, doesn't mean that yours is better than anyone else's.
Test driving one is not a full study. Hearing from actual owners who have put miles behind the wheel is where you get real information. You're biased against Tesla, so there's that.
Please provide a detailed study that shows physical buttons are safter than touch screens. And I'm not talking about something some kid wrote up, but an actual study. To say buttons are safer is so....behind the times. ;-) How did you ever get used to the iPhone??
Meanwhile, for those afraid of touchscreens such as yourself, there's always voice commands, which work in Teslas.
CarPlay/Android auto are not needed. The radio is very well designed and has everything I want...and I can always stream Apple Music from my phone if I wanted. Apple would want another subscription if they offered it...why would I pay more when I can just stream it?