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Wiping two Macs (a Late 2006 MacBook and a 2010 Mac mini) before I send them off to the recycler. They're useless machines that have been collecting dust, so why not get rid of 'em.

Also, paperwork, paperwork, paperwork. 15 pages of it. Completely unmotivated to complete it. I've already spent the past hour filling out electronic forms, so now I guess it's time for the paper forms!
 
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rm5, do you get a lot of support and encouragement from your parents? For some reason I am not feeling this or sensing that you're getting it when you actually might be needing it... I get the impression (which of course may be wrong) that you are floating out here (at least online, anyway) on your own. ?? Please reassure me that I am wrong on this! Parental engagement with their child(ren) is so important in a young person's development.
 
An excellent idea.

Why not?

Mainly because of the religious connotations. It’s somewhat of a double edged sword as it is easy to understand but it might mislead less spiritual individuals.
I agree completely with this.

Now, I may not (fully) subscribe to the doctrines of the Abrahamic faiths, or religions, but I do think that the principle of having at least one day in the week that is not dedicated to the temple of commerce - that is not work-related (or, that is reserved for the divine) to be an excellent (and very necessary) one.
Absolutely agreed.
People need time to switch off, time to claim as their own.

Not just for rest, relaxation, recreation, family, but also - paradoxically - for reasons of creativity and (ultimately) of productively (in your work, if it requires any degree of thought or creativity).

Some of the best solutions to problems come when you are relaxed - and doing something else, listening to music, taking a walk, perhaps in the shower, perhaps cooking, perhaps, even about to take a nap - and somewhat removed from pressing immediate everyday concerns and issues.
Once again, agreed. I probably had my best ideas while doing something relaxing.
 
Switching off is a good thing. I used to belong to other forums dedicated to military history (under my real name) and have kept in touch with a lot of the members through Facebook. However I left one group due to toxic atmosphere and just recently have had a "discussion" between another person who made in my view a ridiculous historical comment on a post (pretty interesting) by yet another former member.

Also I used to frequent a sport dedicated forum (with this name) but as things got toxic I frequent it much less and with some other exiles actually post on a Discord server.

I do want to answer this guy who made the ridiculous comment and then take a break except to check for family messages.

Still flame wars used to happen in the olden days too, except by snail mail, newspaper letters to the editor and even articles in journals.
 
Switching off is a good thing. I used to belong to other forums dedicated to military history (under my real name) and have kept in touch with a lot of the members through Facebook. However I left one group due to toxic atmosphere and just recently have had a "discussion" between another person who made in my view a ridiculous historical comment on a post (pretty interesting) by yet another former member.

Also I used to frequent a sport dedicated forum (with this name) but as things got toxic I frequent it much less and with some other exiles actually post on a Discord server.

I do want to answer this guy who made the ridiculous comment and then take a break except to check for family messages.
Switching off - and taking a break from the online world - are excellent ideas.

An aside: Military history is fascinating, and is something that I have always found interesting.

Still flame wars used to happen in the olden days too, except by snail mail, newspaper letters to the editor and even articles in journals.
True.

However, in the old days, you usually had time to think second thoughts before you actually sent a letter by snail mail - the act of writing, - sometimes, letting it sit overnight and sweat a bit before proceeding any further, the act of finding (or having to buy) an envelope, of heading to the post office, queuing for a stamp....all took time, and the process of taking time encouraged the whole idea of second thoughts, second thoughts which may have included arriving at the conclusion that it might not be entirely necessary to despatch this missive by post to its intended recipient.

Nowadays, you just press 'send', or 'post reply', which can be unfortunate, especially if you are still steaming as a result of an online altercation.
 
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Nowadays, you just press 'send', or 'post reply', which can be unfortunate, especially if you are still steaming as a result of an online altercation.
Even at the time of BBS’s and at the dawn of internet in the 1990’s flame wars were more moderated. Certainly the fact that there was more attrition (online world wasn’t always available as you had to be in front of a computer), and costs played a factor. One thing that I remember is that even the most aggressive flames were more articulated than the current Facebook wars of back and forth of idiotic comments. In order to “win” an argument on a bulletin board - and garner some support from other users - one had to at least attempt to express some sort of basic reasoning behind controversial statements. Obviously, then as of now, no one really won an online argument, but at least there was some food for thought. Nowadays half of the heated conversations are one-liners, memes, or plain insults.
 
All true about snail mail but when studying the Cold War and Russian revolution we studied some of Lenin's polemical articles flaming other Marxists, Darwin's famous book launched a few flame debates as well most famously with Thomas Huxley and Samuel Wilberforce. 🤣
 
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All true about snail mail but when studying the Cold War and Russian revolution we studied some of Lenin's polemical articles flaming other Marxists, Darwin's famous book launched a few flame debates as well most famously with Thomas Huxley and Samuel Wilberforce. 🤣
Honestly, I find polemics and even provocations quite interesting. Sometimes they do advance thought as they function as a challenge to an authority or something that is a standard for no good reason. Although the Galileo story didn’t go exactly as most people believe (wasn’t tortured, never said “eppur si muove”, his penance was light, never lost money etc, and his scientific theories had little to do with it - plus he was wrong), his trolling of authority (calling the king/pope Simplicio wasn’t really a nice thing to do) spawned the advancement of science and expression thereof. Certainly, it’s also a dialectical weapon that must be used very carefully, as very few people are capable of using it effectively.
 
Totally agree about polemics, oh and I had to google what Galileo got wrong, it mentioned tides which I didn't know before (he was wrong there). I already knew the story of how he actually was punished and the “eppur si muove” being apocryphal, though it is a darn good story.
 
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Switching off - and taking a break from the online world - are excellent ideas.

An aside: Military history is fascinating, and is something that I have always found interesting.


True.

However, in the old days, you usually had time to think second thoughts before you actually sent a letter by snail mail - the act of writing, - sometimes, letting it sit overnight and sweat a bit before proceeding any further, the act of finding (or having to buy) an envelope, of heading to the post office, queuing for a stamp....all took time, and the process of taking time encouraged the whole idea of second thoughts, second thoughts which may have included not actually posting this missive.

Nowadays, you just press 'send', or 'post reply', which can be unfortunate, especially if you are still steaming as a result of an online altercation.
I once wrote a rather scathing response to some incompetent colleague on teams. In the end I decided to delete it rather than post it.
However they still got a copy emailed to them. Apparently if you are logged out of teams you get an email telling you someone is trying to reach you with the message they have typed.
Since then I’ve been a little more cautious.
 
Online is ONLINE -I ignore pretty much 75% or more 😌

- If people assume things about me, I ignore.
- I don't ever explain myself to people I don't know for real, I ignore.
- If people try to drag me into their things/stuff/opinions, I ignore.

- There's more - points, that I don't care to elaborate on 😉
 
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Even at the time of BBS’s and at the dawn of internet in the 1990’s flame wars were more moderated. Certainly the fact that there was more attrition (online world wasn’t always available as you had to be in front of a computer), and costs played a factor.
Yes, this was a practical application of the idea of "time equals, or costs, money".

I remember the days of dial up internet connections, and the fact that if you were online that way, nobody could contact the family by phone; actually, nobody could use the phone.

One thing that I remember is that even the most aggressive flames were more articulated than the current Facebook wars of back and forth of idiotic comments. In order to “win” an argument on a bulletin board - and garner some support from other users - one had to at least attempt to express some sort of basic reasoning behind controversial statements. Obviously, then as of now, no one really won an online argument, but at least there was some food for thought.
A perennial complaint.

But yes, I find myself in agreement with you.

Nowadays half of the heated conversations are one-liners, memes, or plain insults.

A heartfelt and profound amen to that.

Insults and one liners - ugh; this is no substitute for conversation and informed (and preferably reasoned) discussion and debate.

And memes are seldom either clever or funny, and rarely apt.

All true about snail mail but when studying the Cold War and Russian revolution we studied some of Lenin's polemical articles flaming other Marxists, Darwin's famous book launched a few flame debates as well most famously with Thomas Huxley and Samuel Wilberforce. 🤣

Now, I am laughing, reading what you have written.

I used to teach Russian and Soviet history, and do indeeed recall that Lenin was a vicious, wounding and vehement polemicist; for such a polite and courteous man in his personal life, he was brutal - ruthless and venomous, in fact, verbally violent when engaged in what passed for political debate, especially with those whom others might have deemed his closest potential allies.
Honestly, I find polemics and even provocations quite interesting. Sometimes they do advance thought as they function as a challenge to an authority or something that is a standard for no good reason.

Agreed, yes.

Although the Galileo story didn’t go exactly as most people believe (wasn’t tortured, never said “eppur si muove”, his penance was light, never lost money etc, and his scientific theories had little to do with it - plus he was wrong), his trolling of authority (calling the king/pope Simplicio wasn’t really a nice thing to do) spawned the advancement of science and expression thereof. Certainly, it’s also a dialectical weapon that must be used very carefully, as very few people are capable of using it effectively.

Ah, yes, Galileo.

Now, yes, I had known that he wasn't tortured, but as a teenager reading (and influenced by) both Bronowski (Ascent of Man) - I loved his gentle yet barbed quote to the effect that Galileo "had rather more children than would have been considered entirely fitting for a bachelor" - and - er - Brecht, (that play), I confess that I was a (fervent) fan.

Mind you, it didn't help that it took the Vatican ages to remedy their own teaching on some of these matters.
 
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I once wrote a rather scathing response to some incompetent colleague on teams. In the end I decided to delete it rather than post it.
However they still got a copy emailed to them. Apparently if you are logged out of teams you get an email telling you someone is trying to reach you with the message they have typed.
Since then I’ve been a little more cautious.
Ouch.

Ouch.

Ouch.

Yes, I can well imagine how such an experience might well give rise to a state of greater caution.
 
Ouch.

Ouch.

Ouch.

Yes, I can well imagine how such an experience might well give rise to a state of greater caution.
It’s all good. The guy no longer works there. I told the boss he had hired a lemon pretty early on. He took a little longer to realise it but got there in the end.
A square peg in a round hole.

On my mind is will FedEx ever turn up to collect my broken lawnmower? The customer service at Bosch is terrible.
 
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It’s all good. The guy no longer works there. I told the boss he had hired a lemon pretty early on. He took a little longer to realise it but got there in the end.
A square peg in a round hole.

On my mind is will FedEx ever turn up to collect my broken lawnmower? The customer service at Bosch is terrible.

Yes, but that sort of thing will linger long in the memory, often with an internal wince when recalled.
 
I suspect that the social skills (i.e. getting along with the rest of the world) of quite a number of people may have deteriorated dramatically during the period of the pandemic, and that this is reflected in how some people conduct themsleves in public.
And the fact that during the pandemic, traffic was near zero for me. But by now you would think people would be used to normal traffic again.
 
I have never had groceries delivered, not even during the worst of the pandemic. There is a large supermarket just over a mile down the road from me and that is where I go when it's time to stock up on food, beer and paper goods. That way in the store I can choose for myself what I want, and yes, pick over the produce, select the best-looking fruits or vegetables.... If for some reason my local store doesn't have some item I want or particular brand that I prefer, I can drive on to another large supermarket just a few miles down the road.
When we did try grocery pickup or delivery, they near always messed something up. And their subs would be absolutely stupid.
 
I've had a few times when I've written something online in a post and later regretted here or in other forums and if I were lucky I was able to delete it before anyone saw it.....
Yep! I can relate! I'm sure you've even seen it happen
 
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I love having groceries delivered. I save at least 1 hour a week.
Agreed; it can be very useful.

These days, I sometimes have vegetables (and, occasionally, fish from the fish stall) delivered.

However, when my mother was alive, it (having groceries, and other shopping - bulky stuff and sometimes heavy stuff such as loo rolls, kitchen tissue, cleaning products, etc. delivered) - was extraordinarily useful, and saved the carer and I a lot of time, and this was at a time when every minute of the day mattered.
 
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