Use Handbrake
I don't know if anybody else has said this, I haven't read the whole thread. Use a piece of software called "Handbrake." It will encode any DVD into a file and put it on your computer. Then just drag the file into the Movie Section into iTunes, and that's it.
The aTV is not for everyone. For me it makes sense as I wanted a way to placeshift my existing media collection. I am not a regular movie renter so those features didnt really appeal to me too much. I have rented a few movies but I dont have a netflix account or a blockbuster or hollywood video account. I also dont buy alot of video from the iTMS so that wasnt even a big draw for me. But I do have a large audio collection as well as Movies and TV Shows on my main computer in my room. Without getting a 2nd computer I simply wanted to watch movies and listen to music in the front room.
The aTV made sense as I was already quite embedded into using iTunes and it was wireless. So for me, the advantage of being able to watch my digital media in the other room with a nice interface and something simple that my mother in law could use it. It has fit quite well.
The big pain has been getting a proper storage scheme and space to rip my existing DVD collection which I would love to have full access to on the aTV.
Would I like to see some other things? Sure.
An upscaling DVD player would be nice, but would go against the whole ripping of my DVD plan. Also, it goes against the sharing throughout the house plan that I envision.
The one thing I would like to see, would be a better remote. The remote it comes with, while simple, is very limited. I put that one away and use my programable remote and now my iPhone, but advanced features would be nice.
So to reiterate, the aTV is not for everyone. that doesnt make it a bad product, it just makes it a limited use product.
I don't know if anybody else has said this, I haven't read the whole thread. Use a piece of software called "Handbrake." It will encode any DVD into a file and put it on your computer. Then just drag the file into the Movie Section into iTunes, and that's it.